What is she avoids me but looks at me?

When someone avoids you but still looks at you, it can be a confusing situation. Here are some possible interpretations of this behavior:

  1. Curiosity: The person might be curious about you and is trying to observe you from a distance. This could be due to an interest in your actions, demeanor, or social interactions, without wanting to engage directly.

  2. Shyness or Social Anxiety: The individual might be shy or socially anxious, which makes it difficult for them to approach you directly. Looking from a distance can feel safer for them while they assess if it's comfortable to engage.

  3. Mixed Feelings: They might have mixed feelings about you. Perhaps there is something about you that intrigues them, but there is also something that makes them hesitant to approach, such as a previous misunderstanding, gossip, or personal insecurities.

  4. Past Experiences: There may have been past experiences or interactions with you that left them unsure about how to proceed. They might be cautious and trying to gauge whether those past experiences may repeat.

  5. Interest or Attraction: Sometimes, when people are interested or attracted to someone, they may not immediately know how to act on these feelings, so they choose to keep their distance while still maintaining a level of interest from afar.

  6. Concern or Responsibility: They might feel a sense of responsibility or concern towards you and want to check in on you without making it obvious, especially if they sense that you might not want direct interaction.

It's important to remember that these are just potential reasons and individual behavior can vary greatly based on personal circumstances and context. If this behavior is something that concerns you, it might be helpful to engage in a gentle and open conversation with the person to understand their perspective.